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*Sumi Roka Magar lives in Aresh, Ward No. 8 of Sunilsmriti Rural Municipality, Rolpa. She is a single mother of three, two sons and a daughter whose livelihood depends on subsistence farming. Life changed forever in 2017, when her husband died while working in India, leaving Sumi shattered both emotionally and financially.
Her eldest daughter, now 26, has a severe physical disability and requires constant care. Sumi’s sons were still children when their father passed away. With no income, no livestock, and no savings, Sumi struggled daily to feed her family. They lived in a makeshift shed, spending half the year in a remote cattle shelter high in the hills, where rain leaked through the roof and nights were cold. Without support, Sumi’s daughter endured isolation. There were times when Sumi had to tie her daughter outside while fetching water; walking over an hour to the river returning to find her hungry, soiled, or injured. Despite these hardships, her daughter’s intelligence and potential shone through, waiting for an opportunity to be realized.
In 2024, INF Nepal arrived in Sumi’s village with a resilience and disability inclusion project. The initiative revived the inactive community forest user group and formed a new self-help group (SHG), prioritizing households affected by disability and food insecurity. Sumi and her daughter were selected as members.
INF encouraged direct participation of persons with disabilities in community meetings. To enable her daughter’s involvement, the group decided to hold a meeting at Sumi’s home. That day changed everything. When her daughter realized the group had come to listen to her, she first cried—but then smiled. For Sumi, it was the first time in 20 years she had seen her daughter’s smile, and it gave her a renewed sense of strength and purpose.
Following the visit, Sumi was proposed for an income-generating initiative. She chose goat farming a livelihood she could manage while caring for her daughter. With a revolving fund of NPR 15,000, Sumi bought two hybrid goats. Within a month, one goat gave birth to twins, increasing her herd to four. She also received ten fruit saplings as additional support.This small beginning transformed her life. Sumi now plans to grow her herd, sell goats, replace her leaking thatch roof with corrugated iron sheets, and buy new clothes for her daughter. More importantly, she has regained her dignity and her family’s place in the community.
Today, Sumi’s daughter participates actively in community activities, and their SHG continues to support vulnerable households like theirs. Sumi reflects, “INF Nepal didn’t just support a livelihood. They restored our dignity, resilience, and hope. We are no longer just surviving we are living with purpose.”
This story shows how targeted, and inclusive interventions can transform lives providing not just material support, but also emotional strength, social inclusion, and a sustainable path toward independence.
*Name changed for anonymity